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Brian Copeland present focuses on single parenting from a brand new mild

Brian Copeland’s new solo present “Grandma & Me” is subtitled “An Ode to Single Dad and mom,” and that is a subject he is aware of effectively.

“My sisters and I waited years to clear my grandmother’s stuff out,” Copeland says. “When she handed, it was so emotional for us, as a result of she’s the one who raised us.”

And, as Copeland notes, that was no atypical feat.

“My mother died after I was 14,” he explains. “There have been 5 of us, and my youngest sister was 1 on the time. Once we misplaced Grandma, she was 85, nevertheless it was sudden. She had a stroke and was within the hospital for 3 days, after which we misplaced her. So it was tremendous, tremendous emotional for us to filter her issues from her. My sister discovered the doc from Alameda County that granted her guardianship of the 5 of us. I checked out that doc, and rapidly it hit me, the enormity of what it was that she did. Right here was this 57-year-old girl with a Jim Crow Birmingham schooling who had misplaced her solely youngster de ella, taking up 5 youngsters ranging in age from 1 to 14 all by herself.

Brian Copeland together with his grandmother. Sherry Kamhi/courtesy of Brian Copeland.”

Many years later, Copeland would get some sense of what she went via firsthand.

“In 2001, I went via a divorce and I ended up with main custody of my three,” he remembers. “They had been in first grade, fifth grade and seventh grade. Their mother had been doing all of the back-to-school stuff and the entire day-to-day issues, as a result of I used to be doing ‘Mornings on 2’ on the time. And if I wasn’t doing that, I used to be on the highway with Aretha Franklin or Smokey Robinson or someone, or I used to be residence sleeping. Then all of a sudden after I bought main custody, it was all on me.”

It wasn’t till he was that guardianship doc that the connection actually clicked for him and have become the inspiration for this present.

“What I made a decision to do with that is to take a look at the teachings that I discovered from what Grandma did throughout that first yr that she had us and the primary yr that I had my three,” Copeland says. “As a result of the primary yr was the hardest yr. When Grandma had us, we had been all in shock and in horrible ache after shedding our mom. And after I had my three, they had been in all this ache from going via this divorce.”

A longtime comic and TV talk-show host, Copeland has develop into recognized for a powerful string of fascinating and extremely private theatrical monologues that he is developed with director David Ford and debuted at San Francisco solo present hub the Marsh.

“Not a Real Black Man,” his 2004 piece about rising up in one of many first Black households in what was then the all-white suburb San Leandro, grew to become the longest-running solo present in San Francisco historical past. He has since tailored it right into a e book and has been working with Rob Reiner to show it right into a TV present.

Copeland’s different reveals embody “The Ready Interval,” a robust piece about suicidal despair; “The Scion,” an examination of privilege impressed by the true story of a murderous sausage manufacturing unit proprietor; and “The Jewellery Field,” a vacation story about attempting to earn cash to purchase his mom a Christmas current on the age of 6. Now he is engaged on his first full-cast play by him, commissioned by San Francisco Playhouse.

Like so many different productions, “Grandma & Me” was delayed by the pandemic. It was initially scheduled to open on the Marsh in April 2020. It lastly began previews on September 9 and formally opens Oct. 8.

“What this play is exploring is what it really means to be a mum or dad,” Copeland says. “The accountability that comes together with it, but additionally the perception that you simply want to concentrate on if you find yourself liable for shaping these younger lives. Particularly youngsters who’re coping with trauma, they want particular care, as a result of they are going to act out. How do you retain your endurance? How are you aware, as a mum or dad, what you are keen to take and what you are not? How do you have got that additional compassion that you must perceive what they’re coping with? Possibly it is parental paranoia, however all of us fear about screwing our youngsters up for all times.”

He provides with fun: “And in some unspecified time in the future, all of us do anyway.”

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By Brian Copeland, introduced by The Marsh

By means of: Oct 22

The place: The Marsh, 1062 Valencia St., San Francisco

Tickets: $25-$35;

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